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Parts of the colleges are open to the public, which makes Cambridge a great walking city. We slipped into garden courtyards, caught choir rehearsal in Trinity College chapel, checked out the used book shops and found the perfect pub: the Free Press, more than a century old, on a quiet street with a fire in the fireplace and no music. The Urban Shed, a charmingly retro cafe with good sandwiches and Internet, was my husband’s favorite, although a table and chair by the window at Cambridge University Press was a quieter place to sit and read.

The River Cam curves around the main part of the city, and the area where the colleges back onto it is called the Backs. Punts take tourists including us along the Backs of Magdalene, St. John’s, Trinity, Trinity Hall, Clare, King’s and Queens’ colleges, under the Bridge of Sighs, the Kitchen Bridge (site of the kiss in “The Theory of Everything”) and the Mathematical Bridge, along expansive lawns and the famous view of King’s College Chapel.

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